“The truth is that the universe has been answering you all of your life, but you cannot receive the answers unless you are awake.”

Rhonda Bryne in her masterpiece ‘The Secret’ articulately gives out the message that the universe answers every time you showcase your deep desire for something worthwhile or of extensive value.

However, what exactly is meant by ‘worthwhile’?   

Does the Law of Attraction work only for a few people?

Let’s try to decode the answers to such questions through a sneak peek into the Dos as well as Don’ts to make the law work for you.  

But before I begin with the specifics of Dos and Don’ts, let’s take a moment to recollect the Harry Potter series (You might wonder why I suddenly took a diversion!). Although the Potter series is widely considered children’s fiction, the characters in J.K. Rowling’s work often end up teaching the audience certain valuable tenets about the universe, in their own sweet magical way!

Albus Dumbledore, in ‘Harry Potter and the Chamber of Secrets’ tells Harry, “Help will always be given at Hogwarts, Harry, to those who ask for it. I've always prized myself on my ability to turn a phrase. Words are…an inexhaustible source of magic…capable of both inflicting injury and remedying it.”

Replace ‘Hogwarts’ with ‘the Universe’ and it works in tandem with the Law of Attraction!

With this quote in mind, let’s focus upon the Dos or the ‘Must Haves’ for the law to work:

1) Understand the Concept of Alignment!

Tuning is necessary, as much in your life, as in a musical instrument. A musical instrument, if out of tune, produces noise. The law will never work for you if you’re not aligned with the universe. Wishing to reduce 50pounds of weight and sitting idle on the couch for long hours do not go together!

Why does the Law not work for some people? Simply, because they’re not ready for it. Either, various conditions in their lives are not suitable for their wishes to come true, or their actions are not being made in the right direction.

2) Visualize your Desires!

A friend of mine needed certain amount of money. Here’s a snippet from our conversation:

He diligently followed the advice, demonstrating an unshakeable faith that he will be able to go forward with his mother’s treatment. Within a couple of months, he received a cheque worth the amount sufficient for the treatment! These were the dues from his previous job which were now cleared after a year.

Visualization is required in order to realise your desires.

3) Know your Energy Field (‘Vibe’)!

Every human being possesses an aura around itself, and its creation depends on the individual’s thoughts and beliefs to a great extent. The journey towards finding visible proof for energy fields began back in 1970s with the conduction of Kirlian photography experiments. Science, by now, has successfully been able to prove the importance of human mind and its connection with energy fields. These fields are the ‘vibes’ we get when we meet a certain person or enter a certain room.

 Your success entirely depends on the vibe you give out as the universe responds to you accordingly. Psychiatrist and author, Dr Judith Orloff, devised a term ‘energy vampires’, defining those who constantly dwell in negativity and are stuck in the clock and hence carry a heavily negative vibe around them. Their negativity repels the people in their universe and also, all the possibilities of success.

Let us now focus upon the Don’ts:

1) Harbouring Impatience and Doubt in your Mind!

Have you ever thought about considering the Universe as another person altogether?  The minute you show distrust in a person in your vicinity, their trust on you is shaken. The more impatient you are, the more delayed is the awaited task. Do not harbour any doubt, whatsoever! Trust the universe!

2) Self-Centric Desires!

Ask yourself the following question every time you wish for something:

“Why should the Universe give this to me? How will the Universe benefit from my desires?”

Remember, the universe includes people, as well as the nature around you. It demands the answers as to how shall you put to action whatever it provides you with. If you demand money to harm the universe, it shall never fulfil your desires.

3) Extracting Pleasure from Pains of the Past!

I touched upon the concept of the power centre in my previous blog. Choices from the negative power centre, and constant discussions of low moments from your past drag you down in the present.

Put a check as soon as you realise that you’re enjoying the discussions from the past! Ask yourself: “Am I doing it for sympathy or validation?”

Remember, as Dumbledore said to Harry, “Words...are a source of magic”. Words have significant power and frequency. In case the frequency of the negative words matches with the universe, you’ve pulled the reverse gear!

Law of Attraction is somewhere in between the mysteries of magic and those of reality. Its thorough understanding can do wonders for you. Apply it in your life wisely and achieve boundless success with its help!

Stay tuned to my video series for further clarity on the Law of Attraction!

Till then, Stay Positive! Stay Healthy and Stress-free!  

The famous author Mark Manson, in his book known as ‘The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F***k’, says, 

“If it feels like it's you versus the world, chances are it's really just you versus yourself.” 

It is always you versus yourself. Things change when you begin leading your life this way. However, for numerous years, we have directed our minds to constantly deny our faults and blame things on our surroundings. 

1. Shifting The Blame Without Introspecting Within

Let me narrate an incident to explain this. Some time ago, in a party, I came across this person. My friend Nitin told me certain things about his life. The man was the founder and CEO of a famous beverage start-up which, in the last few months, was on the slope towards failure. Besides the hefty funds they received, the company had begun to lag in the market because their workforce had stopped being supportive. When I walked past him, I heard him blatantly blaming his employees and calling them ungrateful and sluggish. 

Nitin told me that in the recent past, the man’s employees had been complaining about his behaviour, and some had even resigned. The man was rude and mismanaged in his work. He used to call his employees for meetings on weekends or holidays, providing them with unrealistic reasons and often cancelled at the last minute. Such repeated acts were clearly a reason why his employees had stopped supporting him.  

Numerous attempts had been made by his closed ones to explain to him the real reason behind his downfall, but he refused to accept it. He deeply believed that his employees were at fault.  

This was his blindspot!  

And this is where I realised that most of us constantly dwell in our blindspots. A blind state is not healthy for your mind. You need to remove your blindspot in order to move forward in life and accept your responsibility towards shaping your life. Let me explain this better through the Law of Attraction.  Your life is constantly getting shaped with or without your knowledge. How so? Every decision you take, be it small or big, makes a difference in your life. Often do we wonder, 

“How come these successful people are always so confident? Do they never make wrong decisions?”

The answer to these questions can be easily understood with the proper understanding of the Law of Attraction. Every decision is correct if taken confidently and for the benefit of the others, hence, people who take decisions without any doubt, always tend to be successful in life. Law of Attraction has one basic rule: 

For the law to work, Desire and Action need to be present, however there should be no place for Doubt. When was the last time you gave an advice to a colleague, or a friend? How easy or difficult was it? We do not hesitate while making decisions for others. While counselling others, we do not give in to doubt. However, while deciding or taking an action for ourselves, we often spend days as well as months before reaching a conclusion.  

What do you need to do or eat to remain healthy? What should be your daily routine? Most of us have been aware of the answers to these questions for years, but have we really begun to bring them into action? We spend hours planning, thinking about what we should or should not do. Being practical and taking actual decisions for yourself is the tricky part. 

2. Harbouring Superstitions Rising From Self Doubt

Doubt emerges mostly from our past experiences. Here, let me introduce the concept of Power Centre, i.e. the collection of beliefs (stored in our subconscious) which is a result of positive as well as negative experiences in the past. We often dwell on our past for the decisions we make in the present.  Dwelling in the past gives rise to superstitions!

Let’s say, you have failed an exam when you slept early the night before the exam. Your past belief will not let you sleep before the next exam. You’ll always be scared and will try your best to study till late at night. If somehow, you fall asleep the previous night, you’ll sit for the exam with a truck load of fear in your heart and eventually end up forgetting what you learnt! As explained in my previous blog, the Law of Attraction shall work perfectly in this case. 

This is how doubt, and in most cases, superstition forms a part of your subconscious.  

It is your responsibility to constantly make choices from the positive power centre and not from the negative power centre. Make use of your past for motivation! This is one of the few ways to direct the Law of Attraction in your favour! 

Do away with doubt and remove the blindspots which keep you from your dreams and life goals! 

Stay tuned for my next blog where I’ll explain the do’s and don’ts that will allow the Law of Attraction to work in your favour!

If you want to understand how and where to start, let’s have a conversation.

Till then, Stay Positive! Stay healthy and Stress-free!